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Lisa Blair's avatar

I resonate with your sentiments in this great piece, Tiia. Especially this: "What I perceive as their ‘style’ is the person underneath the clothes, not the clothes themselves." I am also drawn to Tilda, Georgia, and to similar kinds of interesting (but not necessarily conventionally "attractive") people like Susan Sontag and Joan Didion, for example. This quote makes sense to me when I think of all of them. I'm drawn to qualities about the person and their personality and their clothes are somewhat of an afterthought, just a logical extension of the person, but they are not the main event, they just play a supporting role. Your post makes me realize that I may in fact be more interested in just expressing myself/being myself than I am in fashion per se. This also means that my emphasis would be more on becoming/unfolding into myself first with clothing/style choices second, as opposed to the other way around. Having taken a 2-week break from IG (which will go longer now), I've already noticed that my creative expression and my imagination re: style feels freer to explore clothes from a more whimsical place rather than from a consumer mindset of thinking I need to have the latest pieces or to fill in gaps or to look good for FOMO's sake. It resulted in me purchasing a vintage shirt and sweater on Etsy (I personally almost never buy vintage) and neither of these pieces do I "need" or will fill holes in my closet or anything rational at all, but rather my creative self just dreaming of wearing them. I hope this distinction makes sense. It's a welcome psychic shift for me.

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MidnightBlueBlack's avatar

I feel this way when I see the clothes at the Costume Institute at the Met. Without the human they fall flat. I wonder why this is why I am bored watching runway show videos, all those generic models uniformly and glumly projecting the brand’s aesthetic. Rather see the clothes IRL, or at least editorial.

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